Disable raising and focusing of X frames

because wow is that annoying

.emacs.d/init.el

@@ -496,6 +496,8 @@
   :config
   ; seems to need to be before mode init
   (add-to-list 'frames-only-mode-use-window-functions 'undo-tree-visualize)
+  (setq server-raise-frame nil)
+  (defun x-focus-frame (FRAME &optional NOACTIVATE))
   (frames-only-mode t)
   (menu-bar-mode 0)
   (if (executable-find "i3")